Dating manual rules

Here are naked truth of dating manual which help men to gain girlfriends' trust. They work on the level of our sub consciousness that is why they are very effective. Here dating manual rules:



Rule number one of dating manual - protection. First of all man have to know for sure what girlfriend wants besides see him naked. It is silly to create an image of a Don Juan when man want to make an impression on a 30years old woman. It is evident that she is looking for a husband. Nowadays the most common role for a man is a role of a protector, the patron who will do his best to satisfy his woman.

Rule number two of dating manual - power. All women like when the man plays a role of a boss, a hero or a virtue but they do not like when men play a role of a victim, a servant or a beggar. It is not a secret for anyone that weak and not confident men are not very successful. Of course some women like to play a role of mothers for such men but not all of women. Most girlfriends prefer to be with a strong person. That is why it is good for man to show strength, brevity, confidence but not towards the woman but towards the people. Man would better stay calm and mild with women, but man should not forget to show strong points. The woman's imagination will draw a picture of a strong-willed person who could overcome all difficulties. Women like to listen to the stories about wars, fights, risky adventures and other things of that kind. Alas, women are ready to listen to brave stories for long hours even if woman know that the stories are made up.

Rule number three of dating manual - fatherhood. From the very beginning man should treat a girlfriend as a child. Man for example ca pronounce the name of the woman as if she was his daughter - with the help of intonation and confident voice.

Rule number four of dating manual - conversation. If man want to strengthen relationship man should speak less and listen to woman more. Some women like to tell about themselves for hours, sitting or lying in a relaxed pose. If man want to change the point of the conversation and talk about sexual life and habits man can use all the rules given above. After that man may tell women a romantic story. Man may offer to do some kind of a test on woman sexuality level, like what if she will see man naked. Both outputs would be interesting for woman and woman will go on discussing this hot point.

Boyfriends

Some women are born and live with desire to conquer men. Of course, that is good to be drawing attention from everybody – with one man you go to a fancy restaurant, with another to a Broadway play, with the third to travel, but it just seems that easy, some day it might turn very bad.

Just imagine: woman have many different admirers, fool everyone in the same time, and do it so well that they do not even suspect about each others existence. Women should be as smart as a professor and as deft as a chess-player for remembering everything and to not confuse. It is good if her men are alike, but what to do if they have diametrically opposed tastes and desires? However, it is known that variety is the best thing against boredom and this why some women are so happy to have affairs with different men. Probably she love risk, and getting naked but the world is so small and nobody is insured against bad accidents.

Yes, several love affairs can spoil person nerve system a lot, but there is some other even more dangerous thing – loss of the reputation. They can say anything about the equality of men and women, any way the public opinion judge’s women much more strict. Men with a great pleasure will let women to work in a mine and drive a bus but not equality when they naked. There is one more paradox – most of women in this case will not be on women side either. Even if women relations with men are pure and chaste and appear just as an innocent flirtation any way, women risk to tarnish reputation. Men aren't as they saying that they keep to modern views. That is very pity of course but women have to account with this state of affairs. So if women are going to fool several men in the same time she should not wait for an easy and quiet life, and she should be ready for various surprises.

If women are dating with several men and then decide to stay with the only one, there is a big chance that she will rush about them for a long time. The problem is that women do not have a real feeling for all of them and are attracted to the general result of their dignities: intellect of the first, strength of the second, naked the third. All those men are collective portrait of ideal men she did not meet yet.

Work family balance

Marilyn Monroe said: “Work is wonderful thing but it cannot warm anybody up when they naked in the cold night”.

Many women believe in popular social legend and live with a thought that they have to make a global choice – work (success, money, reputation) or personal life (full family and home food) but there could balance. The psychologists say that the most successful work make women who have a good family and kids.

Many women started making a work because of no personal life. Such a women balances her love and family absence by success in different field and it seems that she demonstrates fantastic ambitions of a lone person concentrated on work.

However, sometimes that lonely careerist will be surely passed by one of her competitors with a balanced personal life, calm and confident about herself and tomorrow because it is not a secret that it is impossible to be at two wars in the same time. This why women should make one of them a good supplied rear so it will be easier to win at the other.

Good personal life does not harm woman’s work at all and even more, it stimulates it. Moreover, in its turn a good work very often becomes a key of a stable personal life. So if person are all about work and do not think about being naked or at least about a good love affair, that person should think twice because in this case woman risk more to fall off balance and lose it. Any woman is an actress they all change social roles all the time and become a colleague, boss, wife or a mother. Women should learn how to balance that constant change of roles, to play the role she need in the moment: an accurate colleague at work, a caring hostess, loving mother and a passionate lover at home.

In addition, person always should find time for sex. If women really got tired at work, she shouldn't give up.

Strong relationships

Every man and woman dream about strong relationship and understanding. However, not many people achieve it. Even less can keep it after we got it. Why is it this way? As a rule, people build relationship relaying on personal experience or experience of their relatives or friends. It is not the best way and most of time it does not work. For relationship to be successful:

1. Person should be self and not try to indulge all man desires. A woman usually knows what man wants because of her intuition. For example, a woman who only think about career likes a man who wants to have many kids and woman says that she wants to have at least five children. Nevertheless, in a little while naked love will be over the woman will remember about what she really wants and man will feel deceived and disappointed

2. A man should respect himself. It is not so good to sacrifice yourself for a man. A man has to gain a foothold himself. The more woman will prove that man will not survive without her the worse will be man's attitude.

3. Woman should not try to change man. It is possible, but only when man is under 16. To that age man character forms. So, if person is a selfish and greedy this man will not change after a naked scene.

4. Woman should not take all the initiative - woman should let man feel himself a man. From the very start, man should be sure that he was the initiator of relationship. Even if it is not so and woman planed and organized that first getting naked at her friends house.

5. On the first date woman should not be shy to tell about herself, but also should not stress man with business or financial issues. It is better to tell man about hobbies or loving books and listen what he says. It is the best time to understand man if women ever want to meet again. If woman do not like something, she shouldn't be afraid to say no. Later it will be much harder.

Women boyfriend tips

At a glance boyfriend is less attractive naked, smaller, heavier as it appears on phone conversations.

Usually boyfriend is untidy and does not shaved properly what of course means that boyfriend just think no one will see him naked and he is of creative nature or had a party yesterday

Boyfriend always wears the same trousers and utterly conservative if it concerns the clothes shopping.

Men react inadequate to the words ‘respectful’ and “well-off” and prefer to change them with independent and self-made.

Boyfriend absolutely can not stand any kind of critics in his own address.

Boyfriend doesn’t answer any time women are calling him with a nick-name especially on public.

Boyfriend completely unable to get too much of information at the same time and do several things at the same time.

Boyfriend has an unique opportunity to solve problems do not taking them into consideration

Boyfriend is afraid of getting older therefore in his late forties prefers naked 25 years old girls and by his sixties from 18 till 23 ones.

Instead of regulate present relationship men is in a hurry to broke them down

Between two leading women in his life man always prefers mommy to his wife

Boyfriend do believes that the most valuable criteria for the woman to choose him is the possibility to react on her naked

Boyfriend always pull the blanket on his side of bad.

Boyfriend likes to disappear for a month or two and then suddenly to pop up in your horizon

Women lover

If women look around will she see many men who deserves marriage? Hard to find. Most of those who deserve love are already married. What should women do? Those women who are still young and beautiful, who need attention and tenderness? Many women are satisfied with unmarried status. In addition, it could be the best way for women if she is under 35, independent and made career and do not want to burden herself with family. The main part is to be comfortable with lover’s role.

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Woman not all about man! Lover should not talk with lover about many lone girlfriends and all they live a boring life. It is better say "recently broke many years relationship because I became tired of problems my boyfriend was making for me". However, bad idea talk to lover about personal details of past life. Even an accidental story with intimate details might be interpreted wrong.

Person should not count on marriage. If it happens it will be a pleasant surprise. It is good if lover understand that no one seeking marriage, and relationship does not have big future that life is only today.

Conversations about lover's ex - bad idea. At first, almost all lovers complain about theirs ex's. It would not be good to take part in his family problems. It is never interesting to know lover' ex's name, naked appearance, place of work, sexuality or character.

Advertise relationship - bad idea. Going to public places together – run in to involve in lover's friends or even worse, ex or family. Because family issues can break any relationship. It would be better if other parents or friends will not involve in relationship.

One woman one man

One life one love?

Woman are completely love one man who does not love her back. Forever! Woman is ready to follow same man wherever man goes and do whatever man says. Such a plot is good for some love story in a book or on TV but not for real life. Such possession leads a woman to self-destruction, to the loss of woman personality and her close people – to constant worries and sufferings.

Mysterious disease or love?

What does possessed would say to the psychiatrist? Women tells that is proud of her love. That she has never felt naked better and such a strong love for anybody else. Also that this woman is ready to wait for man no matter that if that man never will be with her. That for the sake of that great love woman will forgive that man everything. That other men do not make her feel the same love and she just crosses out all the other candidates.

Him and only him

There are a lot of women looped on a man who is indifferent to them. Is it really so? Why do interesting, good-looking smart women step into something which brings them loneliness. The emotional state of a woman looks like the following periods of low spirits alternate with periods of high spirits when everything seems great. If the love to a man coincides with the border state, the woman has an impression that that man is her prince on a white horse who saved woman. The state of being looped may happen in case when a man coincides with an ideal shaped by the woman’s sub-conciseness. And besides, for the ideal and the chosen one to coincide there is needed help.

Ancient Greeks used to say that passion is aberration. “Only his smell and his arms turn me on” – women who are crazy about one man say, adding that they do not feel anything with the others. This is how over naked selectivity works – sign of a sexual deviation when one stimuli produces an emotional storm and all the others have no respond. The most important thing is for the woman to realize that such a destroying feeling is not love.

Auditory, kinesthetic and visual styles in different people

How to deal with visual, auditory and kinesthetic styles.There is an ancient opinion that the way to a man’s heart lies through his stomach.Woman have managed to find a way to man heart and marry him. Woman have become a head-cook and the cook book is read a hundred times. But this book doesn’t have the recipe of happiness. The marriage is far from the ideal. Then arises the question what have been chosen wrong – the man or the way to his heart. A person uses all channels of perception but only the one is leading. So all people are divided into visuals, auditory and kinesthetic. Knowledge of partner type helps with relationship.

Visual
What attract attention of such kind of a man: beautiful naked women, cars, landscapes. If man uses such phrases as “I see that…”; “Let’s look through the situation” probably man is a visual. If man look into woman eyes and point out to the things during the conversation sure that he is a visual. In this case the way to heart lies through the visual canal of perception - through eyes. As a rule visuals are great aesthetes. All in all they love beautiful things. They will appreciate beautiful dress and beautiful naked women or exquisite dinner set at its true value. Dirty dressing or untidy rooms as outward disharmony is absolutely intolerable for this type. Nice love note accidentally discovered in this person pocket or a small present will remind about endless love. During the fight use of a visual language is the best – looking into person eyes, and using such phrases as “Imagine…”, “Look, it would be better if…” will be most effective

Kinesthetic
If person is kinesthetic than often uses such phrases as “I feel that…”; “I have a feeling that…”; “It touches me…” During the conversation kinesthetic person tries to keep close to partner and to touch partner hand. Kinesthetic is like a child: touches, smells and tastes everything. Kinesthetic will appreciate delicious and aromatic dish at its true value. They will pay attention to automatized candles if partner decide to decorate the dinner table. If lover learn to do massage and will do it for naked partner, sometimes, his happiness will be endless. Automatized oils, good perfume, fluffy towel and comfortable slippers would be great presents for the kinesthetic.

Auditory
If your partner is always murmuring something, sings naked in the bathroom lover is probably auditory. A guess will be proved if hear such phrases from lover: “Let’s talk about it”; “It sounds….” partner is certainly an auditory. The way to auditory person's heart lies through the acoustical canal of perception. CD player and CD's are the best presents. During a fight you have to talk a lot, and it would be better to talk by the phone - in this case it’s easier for auditory to understand lover.


Test
This test will help to know to what of three types partner belongs. Imagine the sea. If lover says:
Sky-blue sea, naked women, golden sand, bright sun, picturesque mountains; he is a visual.
Hot sand, warm waves, the air of the sea, touch of a naked women; he is a kinesthetic.
Loud creams of a gull, the noise of breaker, rustle of a grass; he is an auditory.

Tips

People have invented computers, cell phones, mp3 players and a number of tips for those who are in love to be passed from one generation to the other. Some of the tips survived and most people even like them. For example, respecting each other, not cheating, not blackmailing, especially with sex. But there are at least five tips that became old-fashioned as well as Pentium II.

Old tip 1

Yes, it is great that you are together! That you are practically one whole and on the last wedding invitation was written Dear Mary and John, though you are not going to invite anybody so far to your own wedding. You look cute when you are kissing in the last row in the movie theater. But last Saturday in the café you went too far. Your friend Jess (single) whispered to you : Look, what a cutie! meaning a Orlando Bloom’s rival who’s just entered. And you announced (not whispering at all) : Why should I bother looking at him when I have John. It is not that you hurt your friend. By saying that you hurt yourself.

New tip. Look around.

If you stop looking around, you may get into an accident. If you stop looking at other guys, you may live quite a boring life and lose qualification. You ask, why bother if you have already made your choice? To be interesting to your boyfriend and to yourself. That’s why start looking around. Sometimes tell him that the saxophone player has beautiful fingers, and your coach has perfect figure and that ice-cream seller has a mysterious cold look. And at the same time if your boyfriend turned around to gaze at some other girl, do not stretch your hands to his neck. It is better to say: yes, I liked her too. Saying that you will demonstrate your sense of humor and self-reliance. The most important thing is do not understand green light literally, even if it goes from the green eyes of a stranger.

Old tip 2.

You have eaten 6 cakes today, your coworker has given birth to a son, they have painted the floor yellow, your boss likes carrot juice, lines in the store are so long. Do you think that your guy wants to know all that information. Then listen. The cab driver is nuts (that is just a euphemism). His boss is from the same herd. They have a new secretary with perfect legs. He had a steak with potatoes and a bottle of beer for lunch. His mum called him four times to remind that all the family are getting together on Saturday. On the way back all the drivers were assholes. In the store… Is that enough? Really, such a detail retelling from his life may be very boring. But you have heard that you need to share everything to be really close to each other.

New tip

Discuss only what interests both of you. The rest you can leave for yourself – having thoughts and private life of your own never hurt any relations. Remember that he is your boyfriend, not your psychologist. Of course if something like your sister’s pregnancy or your boss’s injustice impressed you, you should talk about that with your guy. He will feel sorry or happy for you. But you should not list your colleagues’ names every day like the list of irregular verbs. Whatever he says, he is bored listening about it.

Old tip 3

Love is a candy, and you want it to be a gum. And at that with imperishable taste, the kind Willy Wonka invented in the movie “Charlie and his chocolate factory”. For spontaneous sex you have already tried all possible and impossible poses. But why? Planned sex may be more pleasant to both of you.

New tip

Waiting for the miracle is sometimes even more interesting than the miracle itself. Plan and enjoy. Instead of going out to the same Chinese restaurant to eat sushi, stay home and have sex. Trust me, it is very romantic. Just because you will be looking forward to that and thinking about each other all day long. Sushi are not to be compared with a just bought new king size bed.

Old tip 4

They say you should not go to sleep not making up after a quarrel. That is a tip of a dry pillow. Women long for harmony, they want to speak out, to put everything clear, to analyze and be over with the argument. And that’s why the worst thing is when your beloved turns his back on you cursing. You cover with a pillow and start crying thinking that life is over. Try to forget the tip of the dry pillow and become an adult. Your guy is not an asshole, he is a wise man.

New tip

First of all, there are conflicts which are impossible to solve (and mother-in-law is the most insolvable). Secondly, many people need to calm down to make a decision. Thirdly, you may turn out to be such a person. Try once just for the sake of the experiment to be the first to turn your back. And before that if possible give him a kiss or say good night. As Scarlet was saying, going to sleep with a problem unsolved, you do not give in but take time to think it over.

Old tip 5

You have read an article that you should stop talking to your exes because they are evil. Because you still feel for each other and it might break out with new passion. That it hurts your guy’s feelings. And at last that it is better not to mention any names from your wild past. And now read the following. You have past and present with your new boyfriend and now you are working at your future. You both are terribly busy, you career is at the break point. You have hardly any new friends, on-line friends do not count. Think about it, why should you stop seeing people who are really dear to you, who you really respect.

New tip

If you broke up badly, then you will not want to see him again. But if you really want to be friends, do not lose one more close person in your life. Besides, our exes have a number of advantages to our other friends. First of all, they know us and understand us better. Secondly, they wish us good, as a tip. And at last if you were with that person, he must have deserved it. Only the circumstances have changed and not the essence. You present guy need to realize that you like every other person have your past, happy or not. Just try not to accentuate all the advantages of your ex and do not bring them together. And accept that your boyfriend will want to meet his exes too.

These were only five tips, there is the sixth, and the seventh and many others but every couple derive them and follow or do not follow them.

Meaning of love

Who wants to represent colored love, nearly always the selected color is red. Who wants to express love with flowers, the rose nearly always is selected. A red rose is a symbol of love. Even if the favorite color of the presented one is not red, then another color could obtain a wrong message nevertheless: A yellow rose means jealousy, a white rose - longing, a pink rose – careful flirtatiousness and only a red rose speaks of the glow of love. But all roses belong to the messengers of love for many years.

Rose

People said “sub rose" in the Middle Ages, if they wanted to say something in the secret to someone. In hostelries and in city-halls the roses hung over the cover, so that nobody forgot the fact that should be protected with silence over what was talked here. And does not love need the discretion? Your "rose lips", your “rosebud” the poet described the labia of the worshiped ladies, which enclose like "rose sheets" "their secret". Already in the antiquity the dear goddess Venus/Aphrodite was connected in many stories with the rose. The rose kept its symbol strength also later. The rose novel, the "novel de la rose" became famous at the end of the Middle Ages. In its first part it describes a polite love; the second part however is received quite clearly on the sexual love, with the rose as its recurring symbol. A rose as the symbol of erotic prove even today the street names like "rose lane", "rose angle" or "rose garden". At those places could be seen some men, who wanted to find love to buy.

Affection at the St. Valentine’s Day

The St. Valentine's Day is the day of roses is today. Even if the Germans took over the celebration only few decades ago from America, then the St. Valentine's Day has nevertheless a rather long history. Nearly two thousand years ago it is that St. Valentine married secretly in the old Rome loving people, who wanted to marry against the will of their parents or the society. However it doesn’t seem to be nice for him, because St. Valentine died on February, 14 by the hand of his executioner. Already the Romans are to have presented their wives on 14.2. with flowers and up to the late Middle Ages give it to report, according to which February, 14 was celebrated particularly in France and England as celebration of the young loving. In Germany the St. Valentine’s Day became actually popular only since the 50's of the 20-th century on the detour over America, in Japan only up to the 80's. There, in Japan however there is above all the women, who give the men somewhat.

The May tree setting

Who missed a chance on February, 14 to give to their ladies a small greeting or a large bouquet, a chance remains for May, 1. That time it is late for a bouquet, however it should be a whole tree, the May tree. And also this custom has a long history. Already the Romans celebrated on May, 1 in honors of Maia, the goddess of growth and the fertility. After her the month was called May and later also the May tree, around which also the Romans danced. The Germans celebrated the wedding of the goddess Freia with the sky God Wotan on May, 1 by setting up a young birch, which symbolized the fertility. But only in the late Middle Ages the young men began to reduce the trees to decorate with multicolored volumes and place to their chosen one before the entry door. That was not gladly seen however, neither by the church, which did not want to bear such unchristian customs, nor by the owners of forest, who wanted to know this theft punished. But the more dangerously the May tree setting, the more heroic appeared the young men. Times are over, people can acquire the May trees nevertheless nowadays in nearly all localities.

Diamonds

Who wants to go with his gift to the dearest one safe, for him it can become already somewhat more expensive, because - "best friends of girls are the diamonds" - Marilyn Monroe did not only know. Already in the antiquity magic forces were attributed to the diamond, but only it became very much later the symbol of the eternal love. Debts to it are their characteristics, which do not make them valuable only when they are messengers to the dear one. Since the diamond is not to be destroyed practically, it is used variously also in the technology. But only polished they work only correctly nobly. The symbol for the imperishable love can be sharpened in different kinds, among other things in heart cross section so mentioned.

Heart

The heart would be we the last and most important symbol of the love. What a loving wants red roses, May trees or diamonds? Only if the dearest you give his heart, she will be able to trust his love. And for him it is also much simpler: no dates, which it must consider, no errors in the selection of the flowers, no unnecessary cash dispensing - only one symbol, which can cause everything

Love mask

Women love many things in men behavior, things so simple that every man can do them. It is so simple. Men only need to put on one of these masks on himself. Even more man don’t have to behave in such way always. It is enough to be done once, and for the rest of your life the women will remember it.

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Mask number one. The crybaby.

Women admire the men who can cry sometimes. it means that they are not afraid of their feelings. It is better to burst into tears on some tragic moment in the film or book where the main character is the woman, the child, or some cute animal. When the girl sees man in that moment she will understand that man differ from all that men that surround her in her life. It will be something of a discovery for women, because usually men lack this type of character. Cant cry? Do not try onion. The smell of it will not do good. Better use some medicine for eyes, they are more like tears. It will be a big mistake to burst into tears when suddenly hurt your finger. Or because of salary being cut. Or because of any real occasion.

Mask number two. The cooker.

Women like to sit in the kitchen drinking coffee and watch men cook something. Especially if man are cooking supper for her. This view is so dear to their hearts. Even if man have hamburger as a result of your venture, it will be also pleasant for the woman to receive it. Man feed her. That means that man love her, and need her. The logic is simple.

Mask number three. The patron of art.

In fact not of the art but the patron of woman. Flowers, land rovers, firs, jewelry, lolly pops, balloons, whiskey, pink elephants, new socks, brad Pitt posters - everything will do. Surely not a man on earth wants to be used by a woman as bank cash. Women need something that will prove love, and something they can show their friend to admire. Generosity is a thing to admire. But don’t be mistaken. Presents are not the only things women need. They also need man time love and tender.

Mask number four. The Fighter.

Women are so weak and helpless in many situations. They need someone to protect there frail bodies and souls. That is why they like big guys, who can easily do that. Protecting women and they gratitude. Mistake: fighting old, children, moms, women. And fighting too often is also a mistake.

Mask number five Othello.

Women attitude to jealousy is double sided. On one hand they don’t like men to forbid them to wear open clothes to talk to other men and so on and so forth. Men who don’t like women freedom are considered a bad choice. On the other hand, if the man is not interested in man behavior and he is too cool even when he sees her in the company of other men, it means she means nothing to him. Man should choose several targets to whom not to be indifferent, and should act somehow when sees woman flirting with them.

Male problem

King David’s problem.
If a male chooses rather young girl he should be ready to answer such questions as: “she is your daughter, isn’t she?” and this is the least problem possible. The name of the problem comes after king David because he himself slept with young girls. Nowadays many male think that with young girl they will start a new, younger life. Probably some manage to do so. But most don’t even try. But all encounter many dangers on their way.

Boss problem.
This problem male acquire with their birth. Their parents develop such qualities in them because they are natural for every boy, because the boy must grow into a male and not into something indescribable. So the male can not get rid of this problem and it is better for women not to try making them do so. The result will be unsatisfying for both. 70 percent of male feel themselves uncomfortable under control of women. 64 of them don’t like it when their wives have bigger salary. It is practically impossible to change something in here.

Napoleon problem.
If the male is not so tall as he probably wanted to be he acquires the Napoleon problem. But lack of height is usually compensated by extremely big ambitions. The canonical example is surely emperor Napoleon himself. Nowadays there is great number of such male.

Problem of lost time.
It is possible to become rich and famous even after 50, for example such thing happened to Pablo Picasso. But male want everything and quick. It is their nature. So male who didn’t become rich and famous at the age of 30 often have a period of time that is killing them slowly- they sit in their chairs and are sad because 30 years of their lives have passed by and yet no one knows about their existence except several hundred of relatives friends, work team mates, and women.

Lot problem.
Another character from the Bible. His daughters had children from him. This problem is typical for fathers who have daughters. We are not talking about something immoral. The only result of this problem is that fathers consider their daughters’ boyfriends something of a challenger and are very suspicious.

Alexander problem.
It is more something of exotic, because it is probably one of most feared by male. It is not wide known that most of all male fear to be considered not male - alike enough by other male. In other words they are afraid of being considered to be homosexuals. By the way specialists know that at least 20 percents of male might have became homosexuals if all the needed things would have been done. And 30 percents even experienced it in childhood (as Alexander himself. No wonder the problem is called after him). The fact: 30 percent of male experience awful stress when people who surround him consider him homosexual.

Don Juan problem.
This is a very natural problem. In fact in hour age of emancipation it became common for the women as well as male. It is fear of being left by the opposite sex. Until recently male considered that it was only their right to leave some one.

What women like

In fact woman love consists of small strange peculiarities which form man shape behavior and character.

Woman like it when man eat much. The fact that man can eat 7 hamburgers and nine stakes after is something of a mystery. Woman think that is because men are so big and strong and men need a lot of fuel.

Woman like it when man are wet. A view of a man, wet after his physical exercises is a view that can conquer women heart. But the place is also important moment. If man come wet after gim right into the opera house the result will be… quite the opposite.

Women like it when man think that men are better auto mechanic. When man look at the broken car and ten minutes after say something smart. Women don’t understand anything in the problem so they prefer to admire men knowledge.

Women like it when men are full of testosterone. In fact women love it when man take them on men parties. Women love it to see man as a furious warior, after several beers, when man' favorite team is losing the game of the year. But if man testosterone comes out of and will meet other man in a street fight - that is not the way to spend testosterone at all.

Women like it when man can’t put on your necktie by himself. Women believe that man company will not survive a day with out his help. The way men are choosing the color of official clothes is awful, so it is women duty to help man.

Women like it when man know everything about tech. The case with different unknown things in man garage makes women shiver. Even cut into two parts cola can, to act as an ashtray makes women very proud of man.

Women like it when man snore a little. It is very lovely to see man lying in boxers on the bed and snoring as the king of the jungle.

Women like it when man hug friends. The impulse to show man sincere feelings is very good. What seems man normal is often not normal for women. Women will not take the fact that man hug friends somehow wrong. Women have enough proves of man love.

Women like it when man wait. Women don’t like it when man start eating without women. Even if women are late for supper for ten or twenty minutes. That means men are more interested in food rather than in women. But there is nothing bad in drinking a cup of tea or coffee while waiting for woman.

Women like it when man fast. Women need more time, but you are the man.

Long term

With every new person in life it becomes more difficult to trust. The situation is even worse when one can't trust another. Partners should think of each other not only as of sex partners. People come to the simple conclusion that are all looking not for the partner that we like, but for the lover who will love us in return.

There are many different ways to meet, but the best is to accept the invitation from heart, accept it as a sacred gift. First of all important whether the partner likes you. Women look for constant men, men they can trust, men they cam lean upon, it is there instinct and it is natural. There is no friendship between man and women. Of course if man hear “let us stay just friends” it means that man have no chance for relationship right now. But time will pass. All other guys will disappear from woman life and friend will be the only close man to women. Women will understand the situation soon. Women will return to friend because women is sure upon friend. If man didn’t really need women, man will not become friend and will not disappoint woman - that is also good. Friendship with a woman is really useful. Man come to know woman really well. Man will understand women better.

Relationships age difference

Relationship conquers all ages. That is absolute truth. But there several different stages, according to the age of a person, and there are ninety nine percent of exceptions in any case that concerns relationships. Here more data on age differences in partners in US

Drama - relationship. Age 14-17.
The love between Romeo and Juliet is doubted by many. Difference is about 2 -3 years, no one knows for certain. Not the love itself, but its eternity and their behavior. If Montekki and Capuletti had no difference than Romeo and Juliet would have surely married. The first relationship is very special it is not the relationship for relationship, or relationship for some special boy or girl it is more love for yourself. When the child grows older he comes to the situation that everybody - parents, teachers etc expect more from him. They need him to be ideal. As a result person feels himself uncomfortable and lonely and he starts looking for another lonely person that could help him in his situation. It is usual for this period to be blind and to relationship a person without any hesitations. It is very difficult to avoid different shock after passing this period. It is very important to have friend to help in this difficult situation.

Relationship - passion. Age 18-22.
The person keeps growing. Now difference is that now person is full of desires. Everyone needed something from him, wanted him to be and to act like they wanted. Now situation changes. Now a person wants his/her man/woman be and act like he or she wants. Many opportunities are open now. And a person starts following his or her desires.

Relationship for yourself. Age 23-29
In this age women still believe in true and perfect relationship. And they start paying attention not only for the men that surround them, but also for themselves. Many people change their point of view on the life those who have families already start thinking that they missed
something in their youth - while their friends were going to parties and clubs, traveled and enjoyed themselves, they had to stay with children. If a person does not have a family, he or she will not have it in next several years. It is usual for women - at the age of 22 the woman starts looking for the one, with whom she can live all her life, but at the age of 24 she suddenly decides that this problem can wait fir some time, and at the age of 27 she comes to the conclusion that
she can not postpone that decision forever.

Dis - love for yourself. Age 30-40
Relationship and hatred are very close. Soon after 30 many people start to feel that they haven't achieved what they wanted to. This is cold the mid-age crisis. Women experience it more often then men. Married women start to think that they are unhappy in their marriage, divorced start
to think that no one will ever love her once more, women who didn't marry, think that their time has already gone.

Relationship as it is. Age after 40.
In this age married women actively start looking for lovers. Divorces are very often. But in most cases people come to understand the real meaning of relationship. It does not have to be proved, if it is, than it is not relationship at all. People love not for money, appearance, qualities.
The difference is that people at that age in relationship for the relationship itself.

Myths

10 myths about starting relations via internet.

Why do we refuse from the new opportunity to find our love, happiness, new dates, and prefer to stay lonely in our life? Internet is a virtual reality, and as every reality it has its own myths. Here are 10 most wide spread myths about internet.

Myth number one. I do not need any help in starting relations with new people.

It is rather difficult to find a man. It is even more difficult to find a good man. And it is practically impossible to find the man you need. In the bar the lonely guy can disappear some how, but he will be always in sight on the dating site.

Myth number two. Meet online is not safe.
Online dating sites let woman come to know partner rather well.

Myth number three. Online dating is for complete losers. It is absolutely true if the word loser means educated, opened for new relations and smart enough to use all the ways that can widen
their number of friends.

Myth number four. It is not good because I meat new people regularly. The web and different dating sites can broaden circle of friends without any special difficulties.

Myth number five. It is only for those who lack attention. Attention can be different, dating site helps to get type of attention people want.

Myth number six. It is for non long term relationship only. That depends on the site. Of course there are special sites for every need in the internet and each has its own users. You are not alone in your interests and desires.

Myth number seven. it is only for geeks. It is wrong for one simple reason. In internet and on different dating sites user can start search with different options - age, profession, interests and so on and so forth.

Myth number eight. Online people never call. Usual ordinary people whom you meet in real life use dating sites and it is common for them to behave in the web as they do
behave in real life.

Myth number nine. I am not ready for serious relationship.
In most cases people do not look for marriage in the web. Most just want to find new friends.

Myth number ten. It is wast of money.
It is better to try your luck and to write letters to people you would like to meet, than to spend money on a cup of coffee.

Being polite

The polite man would never allow himself to be late for more than 5 -10 minutes.

The polite man would never allow himself to go behind the woman down the stairs and go in front of the woman up the stairs

The polite man would never allow himself to sit when woman is standing

The polite man would never allow himself to sit without an offer

The polite man would never allow himself to start the conversation with the woman or bow to her until she recognized

The polite man would never allow himself to loudly call her by name in public

The polite man would never allow himself to smoke without offering the woman to smoke.

The polite man would never allow himself to smoke without asking permission

The polite man would never allow himself not to help the woman to carry something heavy

The polite man would never allow himself to touch her in public

The polite man would never allow himself to speak about the woman with friends

The polite man would never allow himself to give a chair and not to care about her being served before he is served.

The polite man would never allow himself to talk about unpleasant things while eating

The polite man would never allow himself to criticize someone's religious or political interests, humiliate anyone's nationality or country

The polite man would never allow himself to sneer at somebody's mistakes and slips.

Call first?

Yes, I appreciate you, but…

The worst thing is to stay on the phone waiting for his call. Make men understand that if men does not call women in a proper time first women might be not home. Women will not feel sad; women have many interesting things to do.

However, if woman appoint a meeting but man cannot come do not start a row and do not make a tragedy. Yes, woman are a little sad but woman always can enigmatically allude to a business woman wanted to do for a long time. Let man guess where woman is and what woman doing.

Call me, call! Do not call first. It is hard but be strong. As psychologist say: no woman won by pushing a man. Do something, read, go for a walk or to your friends. Man called. Wonderful. Carefully tell man about your worries for him and keep silent. Let man justify and set a meeting. Swallow your offense and say yes about the date. While having a free time think maybe it was your fault that he was silent. Analyze your behavior. It is easier to correct your own mistakes. To change him is much harder.

Man took a hammer… and nailed a picture on the wall, repaired a coffee maker, sharpened knives. Applaud man with excitement – man is priceless! Make man feel good. Nevertheless, even if man cannot do any housework and it is easier for man to give you a new iron – take it happily but as granted.

Weak and defenseless. Yes, that is women are! This why woman need caress and care but in the same time, you should look independent, interesting mentally, surrounded with friends and colleagues, having an interesting job or hobby. Weak does not mean downtrodden, lost and unhappy.


Your power is in your patience. Do not call first, may do call first.

Sometimes man will understand happiness of being with woman and woman relationship will become necessary to man. You will have constant lover. That makes any woman mysterious and desirable.

Husband is depressed

If your husband is depressed - Do not count on diversity.

Imagine: today you offer a sexual play with ice, tomorrow – with web cream. Therefore, in a month even the most refined woman’s fantasy will run out. Nevertheless, husband will have a reflex to look for something new and unexpressed emotions and be sure; husband will try to get it any way.


Make depressed husband have reflex on you.

It is simple: you should learn that in the moment of orgasm when husband is on climax of pleasure, press on some chosen point on his body (you can choose any of them but forever). In some time, husband will have a reflex – an orgasm without stimulating of that point will not be perfect any more. He will not understand what is wrong and will decide that it is his partner’s fault. The only condition is husband should not have anybody except you to the time when the reflex is fixed.


Conquer depressed husband's energy.

What wife need? First, forget that husband gets exited very fast. Let it be the other way around. Husband is laying still and you gently massaging and caressing his body. The best way is to start with man fingers and slowly go ahead. At some moment, you will feel his body vibrate from your touches. It is a very important moment – you captured his sexual energy. This is like the last way but now depressed husband' sexual point is all his body.

Etiquette for men

The one who does not follow them can not name himself a man and will be considered of no importance foe women. So read and follow.

Etiquette rule #1 - Real man should not watch “chocolate” movie.

Etiquette rule #2 - Two men can not walk under one umbrella.

Etiquette rule #3 - If man friend’s wife, sister, mother, lawyer, dentist etc asks men about his friend men must not tell them any kind of information.

Etiquette rule #4 - Unless men friend killed some one of men own family, man should take his friend out of prison in 24 hours.

Etiquette rule #5 - If man know another man more than 24 hours, he must never touch his sister.

Etiquette rule #6 - Man must not say his friend’s favorite beer is bad.

Etiquette rule #7 - Not a single man must buy a present for his friends birthday. Even the fact that man know the date is very bad indeed.

Etiquette rule #8 - Before meeting man friend’s ex girlfriend you must ask man. And he must agree.

Etiquette rule #9 - Man knows that woman not understand sports unless they prove they know all the rules and songs of the team.

Etiquette rule #10 - Man must respect beer and present to all his friends on every occasion possible.

Color of love

No other color stands as clearly for the color of true love as red - the heart is red, by which red blood flows. Who falls in true love, whose blazes heart like fires - like a red fire. The lips, which we kiss, are red like the roses, which the loving people give each other. We become red before shame and already for centuries apply for red also as color of true. But stood red also for the pure true love? No, but there was still another completely different color: The color of the pure love was already since the antiquity also the color of the dear goddess Venus - in addition the color of hope and growth.

In the middle Ages, at present the Minnie, all young, unmarried women carried their dresses in this color, so that the young men could hope that their recruiting is higher. Not only Europe seems to know this connection. In Korea a cloth in a completely determined color to the wedding dress of a bride, which indicates still, belongs, which is freshly married the bride. With us the dear message of this color disappeared today; only as phrase the formulation holds itself: "someone green its". Who me is not green, little hope for my true love will have. To say but: "come to my green side" meant so much how: Come to my heart side. The color of the true love was green in the middle Ages.

Men - women

1. Men telephone call lasts about thirty seconds.

2. There are much more naked women in films.

3. One bag is enough for holiday package.

4. You can open bottles by yourself.

5. Old friends don't care about your weight.

6. You don't have to take bag of different things of first importance with you all the time.

7. When you are criticized you don't need to panic that all around you hate you.

8. If someone forgot to call you somewhere he still can be your friend.

9. Your pants do not cost 300 dollars.

10. No one of your workmates can make you cry.

11. All the problems can be settled down with buying flowers.

12. Three pairs of shoes are quite enough for you.

13. You can take off your short when it is hot.

14. You don't care if people who surround you don't notice your new hair style.

15. You can have the same mood all the month.

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Body language

It is well known in science that speech is only one third of communication between the people. Especially between man and woman. The rest do our body language. It doesn’t mean if the woman is silent. Man should look at her and find answers on his questions, paying much attention to the details. Every part of her body, every move can be the body language sign. Usually men pay attention only for two things – bra and skirt, forgetting about the face.

If the woman laughs it shows that she is open for communication. Unless she laughs at you.

If she touches her hair she probably wants to show her beauty. She wants to here : “you look great” or something of a kind.

The woman stares at you. That means she admires you.

Her eyes say- “ you are pretty good”. Woman seems to go away – in fact she tries to use every opportunity possible to speed up your acquaintance . Don’t sit quiet- ask her something. She will stay unless she really needs to go. Woman “accidentally” collides with you, than looks in your eyes as though asking for an excuse and admitting her crime. Be sure she wants you to pay her some attention.

In theory women’ behavior and body language are simple to understand. But in real life it is rather difficult. The simplest explanation – every woman is actress. So you’d better ask to be sure of her intentions.

Hormone point of view

We all know: Butterflies in the belly, sweats, we don’t feel like eating. We have spring feelings, float on clouds and get with each telephone bells heart lawn. The whole world is rose-pink. To fall in love is something beautiful and sexy. In the best case this feeling should last all life long. But our body would not bear it at all, because love is completely exerting for it.


The desire cycle of the sex hormones

Love is not only a feeling. Love has to do also very much with sex hormones in our body. Scientists have found out that there is a kind of cycle, an emotion spiral, with "fall in love". And we become susceptible for the attractions of someone mainly because of such sex materials such as dopamine, adrenalin, testosterone, serotonin and the pheromones - the messenger materials of the love. Dopamine makes us euphoric and untwisted, for adrenalin excited and testosterone increases our desire. Sex Pheromones are messengers so mentioned and arrive over air to the nose of the partner. If we "cannot smell someone", then we should recognize it as something serious, because it shows us that who smells does not fit us. Usually that means by the way at the same time that he is genetically too similar to us, which would affect the reproduction unfavorably. Strangely the "luck hormone" serotonin is missing nearly completely to them, who have been fallen in love, it is really ill therefore "before love". Their "mirror of serotonin" is as low as with psychologically patients. Only, if the first feeling falls in love, shrinks, freshly to be, this hormone mirror normalizes itself again.


The main thing of true love and sex: the role of the brain

Our brain plays a central role in all of these. Scientists assume the origin of our feelings in the almond cores of the nervous system in such a way specified. They again are connected with the Hippocampus, in which our short time memory is settled. Here we remember the small events, which connect us with loved humans. The connections to the hypothalamus continue to go. It is the central junction for the hormonal cycles in our body. Thus for example the quantity of sex and desire hormones is controlled here. In the prefrontal Cortex - that is the part of the brain cortex, for which directly behind our forehead is appropriate - and steer we store our feelings, displace them or permit them.


Flirt comes usually without words out

However who is in love, has normally no sense for the nervous system, the hypothalamus or the prefrontal Cortex. Also not if here further crucial procedures take their out: our communication, our gesturing and mimic art and concomitantly flirting. The flirtation language gets along often without words. People can learn it heavy, because it runs off to the largest part unconsciously. Behavior researchers found out in attempts that usually a lady gives the first signals to flirt. If someone pleases them, they weigh the hips when going, raise the head, throw the hair back, strike the legs one above the other. Men do strides, if they want to show themselves particularly attractively and gesticulate exaggerated. An intensive view, asking or provocatively, creates then mostly the first contact. If the first words are changed, the voice of both partners becomes usually higher, it affects when talking arm or hand of their opposite or supports his arm beside that of the flirtation partner up. Then flirtations turn ever more each other and move finally nearly synchronously.


It happens: the hormones play move

The hormones play moved, and fast the flirting pair steers on one too: Sex. That originally begins in the head. The thought at loved humans, the exciting smell, and the sight of the body or feeling a stroking hand - all this trips for desire can be. Desire provides for the payment of the hormones oxidation and vasopressin, and those pass nerve impulses on to the erogenous zones. The consequences: The vagina of the woman damp, the chest can become somewhat larger and the nipples hard, with the man reacts the Penis. With the play the tension rises up to the high point, the Orgasm. With the woman it becomes apparent by muscle contractions of the sheath, with the man by the Ejaculation. Humans experience this feeling very differently. For one person it is an explosion, for the others is a sweet wave, for the third is a facilitating dissolution of the tension.


Love is more, Sex the I-point

However sex alone doesn’t make anyone lucky. Usually they look for love. If two humans love themselves, then usually the confidence means also mutual for them and security, the beautiful feeling to be able to rely on each other and security that one is for each other there, if one is needed. Sex is for most pairs the I-point, which rounds the relationship off - an expression of intimate sex and love solidarity and the readiness for openness and devotion.

Power of attitude

Some people say that the main problem for them is to find a girl for long time relationship. So what is the problem. Try pick up the girl for a night. In case you never see her after that you will not be so upset - anyway you tried your luck. You simply have to start from something. The powerful point is to get rid of your fear, which have power over you and have right attitude. You don’t have to overcome - that is wrong. This power fear is unnatural. This is your fear of women because of wrong attitude towards them. Have power over your fear. Get rid of ot. Everyone felt it in his life. For many people it is attitude problems now over. You are next to forget about your fearful attitude. It is not simple, but as a result you will change, and those powerful changes will make your attitude better and you happier.

Everything in your attitude must suit you. You must love yourself!!! Not only your inner world, but your clothes, your hairstyle, your body, the way you are moving, talking, eating. You don’t like your jeans? Your boots? Your hat? So what is the problem? Go and get something new. Make new haircut - it will attract new attention to you. Look at the mirror? Do you love yourself? NO? read the power of attitude one more time than.
You should understand that the girl, the woman, is not an alien from Mars, she is from same planet, so you are rather alike. She also has interests in something, may be how to overcome attitude problems too, has her own habits and mood, and they don’t differ from your’s much. She has her powerful wishes, hopes, she wants to find love as well as you, and probably she is interested in it even more than you. Don’t forget - she read tons of love stories, watched dramas about love and now hopes to find something of a kind in her own real life.Let us think what is going to happen with you next. You will do everything for her, buy flowers, look at her eyes faithfully, plan different silly things. And in a month everything will end as a total disaster. You will get even worse attitude, headache, disappointment, loneliness, and all your fears back.

So Let us think about the way the experienced men behave in such situations. You should be indulgent towards women. You have to forgive much to her even bad attitude. No plans and nothing to promise. You should appear in the very moment needed. When you feel it is time for you to leave- do it without any hesitation. And you should be cool all the time - no panic, or it will kill you. She is not Eve and you are not Adam - you can always find someone else in the case of failure. You should present flowers with charm. Don’t bring them to her house. Order them or buy while you are walking somewhere. All negative shuld be inside you so noone will see it- the girl doesn’t need to know about it- she is more interested in your successes in life. You should respect all women, even if some of them are awfull as your nightmares. This should be your point of view on life.

Then:You went for a walk. The birds are singing, the sky is blue, or probably it is covered with clouds- you should like it all anyway. You should smile at the view of the world that surrounds you. In this case the world will smile to you. People will not puss by quickly-they will look at you first. You will read in their eyes: “ come on, let us become friends.” the power of attitude.

Single mother

“I need an advice. We live altogether with my single mother and my two children, 16 and 10 years old. I’m on my early forties already divorced and the only one who brings money home. Beside of working I do all of the home stuff like cleaning, food shopping, taking care of my children and so forth. My mother refuse to help me even in things she is able to do, always criticize me and furthermore constantly giving advises how to grow my children best. She is always complaining that we are too cruel towards her therefore I feel myself guilty, unhappy and deeply depressed. she is a in real confrontation with my older daughter. They are picking and shout on each and every my attempt to interfere leads to a scandal. She puts me out of temper with her love for making scenes! What should I do to stop scandals in my single family? Our relationships are bad. Please help to find a way out of that!"


Psychologist comments

The questions concerning the relationship inside the families remain actual. We can choose our friends and lovers but not mother. That is why independently from our willing we forced to have relationship with people who gave birth to us. The situations always become worse when grown up single children are living with single mother at the same place. Apart from the different life views, characters, habits the so-called “conflict of the generations” or miscommunication will always take place.

The good intentions lie underneath people’s behavior even in conflict situations

If human interest and needs are being hidden for a long time they find an expression in negative way. Elderly single mothers usually suffer from bad treatment caused by lack of children attention. It is not a secret that aging mothers have a bad character and in general less communicative. This is not only a thing of age difference. It happens because old single mothers loose their live stimulus.

By the age of 50 people act according to personal priorities and interests more than ever before. Many of mothers think they are useless and helpless and start acutely feels the lack of important business. That is how bitterness and disappointment come into their lives. They hardly can stand loneliness. In a more positive situations elderly are seeing new prospective and another ways to express their love, life experience and wisdom. Simply have a look from the point of elder people view: after all of this year being busy and taking an active part of thing witch is going on around you suddenly should become passive and do nothing. Thinking like that you one could easily interpret any sings of fear to stay outside of the life boat. Unfortunately this fear could make them angry and aggressive towards close people. They tend to simulate disability witch lefts them possibility to manipulate. The manipulations vary from bothering to much with ’right’ advise to meddling with children lives. Especially when it comes to the questions of grand children education

However abundance of single children care has an adverse effect on them. They turn into persons who are absolutely enabled to take care of themselves. In opposite mothers who continue to do without great assistance lives longer. Therefore the golden middle should be found. Involve your aging single mothers into the life of family but do not let them rule. Always thank for their contribution and encourage any personal activity. Do not cause a conflict situation and remember we are responsible for mothers and their happiness as well as them where during our childhood. Treat mothers as you want to be treated by your children.

Meet single men fast

Women stepped into the lift and there he is - the man of dreams, but there are only 9 floors in the building and you have one minute to meet. You are looking at the so far closed doors and almost crying – there is not enough time.

Or you came for an important interview and your potential boss ran into the management department for a minute. You start stammering, looking sideways, laugh nervously and bite your lips – not enough time anyway. Or you want to impress somebody – a driver, your neighbor, your supervisor – anybody and you have one minute only – 60 seconds, 350 signs – not that little.

Ask any soccer player, and he will tell you that a minute is very long. Or ask somebody who is being late for the job. Just believe them and say to yourself that you will have time to do everything. This will be half of the work. And remember, you can stretch your time up to an hour or your whole life – you just need to work hard for it. The necessary person will understand that one minute with you is not enough and will make it longer. And you will realize it too and will never say again that there is not enough time. And the most important thing – never look at your watch or the time will remember that all you have is one minute.

We consider meeting men as a long-term project. We do not call man for three days, try man patience, make man nervous (rather feel nervous ourselves), suffer and wait. We come for the interview at the long appointed time and place with a number of prepared phrases. We smile. We answer with standard sentences. We think: one step at a time. But we do not know when the next step might be. It lasts for years and does not bring any results. Maybe it is worth to take a risk and use your time maximally? You will manage everything if women consider a few natural accelerators. The time started.

Appearance

Women should wear something to be remembered by, one detail (like red gloves or a beauty spot) will separate women from the crowd, no matter if women are hunting for a men or for a job. In such a case even a torn dress or a broken hill might work. You should be singled out – that is the most important part of your task at that level.

Surprise

Women need to take man by surprise, do what man do not expect, what nobody has tried before. Imagine talking to your friend on a cell phone about a man standing next to women. Make it loud so that he could hear you well. Tell your friend that you do not dare to talk to man first and see what happens. Non-standard solutions are always welcome.

Thoughtlessness

Of course, women take everything seriously and the man women are trying to attract is important to you. But remember that every second counts here. Take it easy and start the game. An businessman told a story that once a strange girl came up to man and asked how he slept last night. I slept well – he answered. And the night before? – Worse, he said. Here she laughed and said: I always sleep well because my husband invented new anatomy mattresses, and she gave man their calling card. In a month the businessman himself as well as millions of other people were sleeping on those mattresses. The girl had one minute only but she managed to get what she wanted by means of her original approach alone.

Politeness

One of the most important moments in minute communication is not to forget to call the man by name. And always smile. As charming as women can.

Openness

Both strangers and almost strangers like when women talk to them as if you have known them all your life. Without familiarity but as if you are talking to a friend. You may ask for help or offer your help, you may share the latest news. If women do it with heart, men will get back to you. And time is of no importance here.

Boyfriend help

You’ve made a decision to live together, with boyfriend not with internet!
That is great! Help! While you are preparing dinner boyfriend is talking to his geek friends online. The dinner is ready boyfriend appears in the kitchen and says: “Be back in a minute, I have to submit news.” You have other plans for tonight but you are ready to put them off. In two months you understand that you are not capable to draw boyfriend away of the internet. In a half of a year you start to read magazine’s help articles which you think will help you to distract boyfriend. The pieces of help advice are traditional: cook delicious dinner and put tempting underwear on. Trying this help you will see that boyfriend eats dinner in front of the internet and underwear works only for the first time…but not always you want just to have sex with boyfriend Help!

What to do with boyfriend addiction?

Try to understand the reason of boyfriend disappearance in the Virtuality. Ask his friends and relatives for help and how he spent his time before your appearance in his life. If they say that boyfriend spent all his free time in front of the internet that is a clinical case, nothing will help - he is a geek. You are helpless.

Human is a slave of a habit. He will notice your leaving only if you cut down the electricity. If your situation is not hopeless write down how much time your boyfriend spends in the virtual reality during a week. If he spends an hour a day in front of the internet and all the rest of the time you spend together ask yourself why do you need to occupy all his free time. The answer will help you to know yourself better and to get rid of your complexes. If the time spent for the internet is equal for the time spent with you that is an encouraging result. For the one hand you have more time to chat with friends. For the other hand if you are not satisfied with it you can carry on negotiations with boyfriend. Try to explain why you are not satisfied with it and propose others pastimes which are interesting for both of you. Make a playful pact: promise to do something if you boyfriend agrees to present a part of internet time to you. If you boyfriend spends all the time in the Internet and in his bachelor’s life he wouldn’t do it you should find out the reason. It’s possible that he is in crisis and can’t cope with himself and need help. He prefers virtual reality to the real. You can ask if you can help him to cope with it. If he refuses help you have to wait for a while. It could be more dramatic: boyfriend doesn’t want to see you anymore but doesn’t know how to say it.

Don’t be upset as it’s better to know all the truth. Increased interest to the internet could be a sign of a trouble of the boyfriend as beer with friends or watching football 24 hours a day.

Women often let the signals of a trouble pass through in a hope that everything is generated by itself. But you have to do your best to help keep the boyfriend.

Separation advice

Separation advice and reasons.

Such a problem stands between a couple at one time or another, whatever it can be a summer vacation on East coast or just a weekend in New York. Think of all pros and cons before making separation decision as consequences might be undesirable.

Anna, one of my friends, was with Tom for more than two years, everybody was talking about the forthcoming wedding and even Toms mom had nothing against Anna. Unfortunately, the idyll didn't last long Anna went on holiday with her friends to Australia leaving her boyfriend alone. Tom, in his turn, did not weep bitter tears over the picture of her beloved , instead he balled in night clubs. There you are - separation. At one party he met Jess, who played the key role. By Anna's coming Tom broke up with her.

Imagine such a situation. Summer. You expect a wonderful holiday by the beach with your beloved. Suddenly he (she) says: You know, I love you so much, I adore you but I would like separation. What advice could be?

You are shocked and need advice! Why does he want separation? Is he fed up with our relations? Did he find somebody else? Or you just let it all hang out and separate with him?

Wait, take a deep breath, breathe out and now try to find the reason why he did that.
There may be a few separation reasons and here advice how to deal with it:

Separation advice #1.

Your beloved is extremely tired. He has been working hard for over a year (month, decade, etc) that influenced his overall health, made him irritable. The only thing he wants to do is just to lay on the sand and do nothing, no talks, to meetings, no phone calls. If this is your situation, think of what is better leave him alone or insist on opposite and continue arguing (that is inevitable in this case).

Separation advice #2.

Your soul-mate is a lively social person who doesn't bear monotony, adores adventures and everything interesting and unknown. To agree with his decision or not is your right, but if he decides to break up (betray), hell do it in any case. Such people can easily go shopping, find somebody and disappear for a few days to drink tea and talk about France. On the other side, he might find you mysterious after the trip again.

Separation advice #3.

All the year he (she) spent the most of his (her) time with you. He (she) just didn't have enough time for friends (relatives). Now it would be fair if he devotes them some time and takes a trip to Canary Islands. Advice is don't hinder! If you decide to hinder anyway, his friends will not like you for that.

Separation advice #4.

Your boyfriend (girlfriend) who decided to break up with you, will give you an opportunity to do it yourself, if he (she) knows that you never agree on spending your holiday separately and ,thus, give the airs.


In case YOU decided to spend your holiday separately with soul-mate, remember advice, the main thing is to pick up the right words so that your beloved will never think that he (she) bored you and you want to get separation from him (her) that is separation advice conclusion.

Attracting women

This rules are very useful for attracting women and can be applied in different cases.

Attracting women - rule number one.“I am the man” And that is great. I love women and they like me. That is normal.

Attracting women - rule number two.“Every failure is useful experience” No one has guarantee. The failure may be not your fault. There are thousands of factors that can act against you - the woman might have had bad day, personal problems etc. If men fail to achieve something he want person should not fall in depression. Remember – it is also a priceless opportunity to understand mistakes.

Attracting women - rule number three.“Talking to women is a pleasure.” If it is not, men do something wrong. Or probably person are already at the age of 90. If men feel uncomfortable during the conversation and person have to think about every word to say – man made a mistake somewhere. Don’t person have any interests of general kind? Movies? Books? Parties?

Attracting women - rule number four.“Use different tactics” If one was not a success try another. If the women doesn’t like parties probably she loves surfing in the moonlight or something else. Learn her interests and men will be on top.

Attracting women - rule number five.“Search- and will find.” No comments needed guess. Apply this rules in your everyday life. Remember about them. Read them every day.And soon person will notice that something is changing in life and it will be easier for man to attracting women.

Pheromone attract women

Men body makes pheromones which attract women leading the opposite sex's gametes towards it to accomplish fertilization... Depends on what person think, body automatically generates pheromone, men trying to hook up generates pheromones to attract women. Decide whom to be tonight. Here are 5 "pheromone prototypes", men body which creates those pheromones gets most attention.

Pheromone attract women that triggers a natural response to a men who act as a Joker

What attract women: The JOKER - the best means from light maiden grief as which they usually feel after the third cocktail with martini. When they laugh loudly above your jokes, they simultaneously test a pleasant presentiment of that this evening with your help will be full with both laughter and a sin. How to enter an image: To joke is does not mean to retell old jokes. The ridiculous history about your army friend is already better if it does not last from sunrise to sunset. The best you can offer is improvisation. The main point is to be original, to be unlike all other people who surround the women. And don’t too often be the subject of the joke- it is risky, because women love joyful guys and not clowns. Another important thing is not to do too much. If you are laughing all the time the women might go away, it is better to change methods and be different.


Pheromone attract women that triggers a natural response to a men who act as a Relaxed guy.

What attract women: they are used to aggressive psychos that surround them. What they are not used to is to communicate with a relaxed guy who is not aggressive. They do not know what to do in this case. How to enter an image: look around you. Don’t show pay attention to what is happening nearby, don’t be enthusiastic hugging her. You simply sit near, as a friend, and you are not interested in her. Take her phone to call “some when”. By the way ask her if she likes to go to the nearest restaurant with you- you are really very hungry, but it is too boring for you to go there alone. When you find yourself near your house deep after midnight with her, suggest her to sleep on the sofa and ask not to be afraid. Of course you have some interesting movie to watch for you together... Be careful- or the women might think that you really don’t like her and simply go away.


Pheromone attract women that triggers a natural response to a men who act as a Persistent.

What attract women: some women too tired after workday to laugh all the time, and they don’t like relaxed guys because they seem to be too cold for them. But all the women love romantics, and all want to hear that they are beautiful and smart. How to enter an image: classical scenario. Be as nice as possible. Than leave her for about 20 minutes. During that time the women will notice that you have left, and that she misses your attention. Here is your time to return. Now she will probably do everything not to lose you once again.


Pheromone attract women that triggers a natural response to a men who act as a Brad Pitt or something of a kind.

In fact only 0,0001% of world population can chose this very type.
What attract women: you are so beautiful what else is needed? But in fact the men of this type are often “dismissed”. The reason is that women feel that some one is more beautiful than themselves. And this is bad. This ca not have a good ending.


Pheromone attract women that triggers a natural response to a men who act as a Ordinary guy.

What attract women: he never dances but loves beer, football, and his friends, plays billiards and darts. Why do women love him? Because they feel that he needs their love and care. In this case you should come to club with a company of friends. Play
billiards and invite her to the party. She must notice that you are different with her and your friends. You may be rude with your friends, but show tenderness towards her.

Gain Girlfriend Trust

There are some ways which help men to gain girlfriends' trust. They work on the level of our sub consciousness that is why they are very effective. There are some of this ways.

1. First of all you have to know for sure what your girlfriend wants. It is silly to create an image of a young Don Juan when you want to make an impression on a 30years old woman. It is evident that she is looking for a husband. There is quite another thing when she has a good family-caring husband and healthy children. In that case she probably wants to get rid of the everyday routine and from time to time have a sexual lover. She knows that the lover would help her to show all her attractiveness and natural beauty. Nowadays the most common role for a man is a role of a protector, the patron who will do his best to satisfy his woman.

2, All the women like when the man plays a role of a boss, a hero or a virtue but they do not like when the man play a role of a victim, a servant or a beggar. It is not a secret for anyone that weak and not confident men are not very successful. Of course some women like to play a role of mothers for such men but not all of women. Most girlfriends prefer to be with a strong person. That is why it is recommended to show your strength, brevity, confidence but not towards the woman but towards the people who you trust. You would better stay calm and mild with her but do not forget to show your strong points. For example when you ask somebody do something do it in form of an order. After such demonstrations of your will and strength it would be nice to remind that in the childhood you was very weak and defenseless.say that your peers offended and insulted you. The woman's imagination will draw a picture of a strong-willed person who could overcome all difficulties and toughen your character. Besides the better half likes to listen to the stories about wars, fights, risky adventures and other things of that kind. Alas, women are
ready to listen to your stories for long hours even they know that the stories are made up.

3. From the very beginning you should treat a girlfriend as a child. Try to say that you are older and wiser, but do not use simple words, use intonation, tempo and manner of speech. Pronounce the name of the woman as if she was your daughter - with the help of intonation and confident
voice.

4. If you want to strengthen the effect speak less and listen to the woman more. Some women like to tell about themselves for hours, sitting or lying in a relaxed pose. Do not interrupt her.

5. The trust of the woman towards you will strengthen if you tell her about your childhood, school time. Tell her about you graduation ceremony, the first kiss or some other romantic impression. Doing this lower the gesticulation and voice and look straight to her eyes. These are the ways to create some kind of a relaxed state of her body and mind. But the main thing is to imagine how your sexual energy is transferred to her. Tell her about friends you trust, their funny and weird acquaintance, development of their relationships and their happy life. But do not speak about your sexual or love experience and experiments. Do not discuss your previous girlfriends if you want to be successful. If you have a family, do not conceal this fact of your biography. Tell only positive things about your wife and children. Some women like to speak on the subject of moral and family. Such woman like men with a distinct moral principles and position. Sometimes it is effective to behave in a strange way. Do you remember when in Hollywood films gangsters and killers talk about the questions of religion and God? This is a typical example of a strange behavior which bewitches women.

6. If you want to change the point of the conversation and talk about sexual life and habits use all the tips given above. After that you may tell her a romantic story of the relationships which remain your relationships. You may offer to do some kind of a test on her sexuality level. Say that according to the results of the tests she is extremely sexually attractive or on the contrary she is frigid. Both variants would be interesting for her and she will go on discussing this hot point

City Wedding

Big city wedding

This is how city wedding happens. When you intend to live with somebody for a long time after wedding, you consider not five years but your whole life, like they lived happily ever after and died in one day. But in reality an average statistical wedding - not city wedding, lasts exactly five years. After that term it becomes terribly boring, but not after city wedding. Sociologists and demographers from the Center of Family and Marriage investigations in Denver, USA assure that it is inevitable in the modern mega pools environment: in the world of professionals and infrastructure people feel no need in saving the family. Love is the only thing that might matter after city wedding. But it goes away, well not after city wedding. And former lovers take the easiest decision – divorce.

For city wedding - resume and recommendations

Let’s admit that wedding for love has become normal just recently. Before that couples get wedding for other reasons like amalgamation of coats of arms, capitals, power…for decorum at last. Those unromantic motives made people keep the family, no matter how they felt towards each other. The woman had no idea of any “ladder climbing” and relied on her husband in all the questions, at the same time securing his rear. That is making his life comfortable. Plus giving birth to his children, practically 9 months after the wedding and you are stuck for the next twenty years.

Modern life dictates new changes even in the most traditional basis of the society – and here we are – most women nowadays do not even imagine staying home, cooking and looking after children. Frankly speaking, most put off children until 30-35 and cause panic among doctors and demographers. Until 30 girls do their best to make a good resume which would let them stay at work after the child-birth.

That is a trick. In a big city it is more common to look important rather than to be it. Higher education is welcome as it testifies a certain intellectual level. And nobody cares that you work as a public relations manager with your technical diploma. Position is also welcome, it testifies your leadership skills. And it is not important that there are only two of you in the agency – you and your boss. The marital certificate is welcome as well: it proves your success in private life. Many people believe that it is better to have two stamps in the passport than nothing. Girls wedd because it is necessary and than divorce because they have the precious stamp already and do not want to waste their time and energy on the family.

City wedding - tuning and upgrade

The city does not offer any long-lasting things so is true about city wedding. Even if the shoes (pants, laptops, cars, cells) are still good and fulfill their main functions they become old-fashioned. Conformity to the so called modern standards is a necessary condition if you want to stay living in your mega polis.

Husbands, alas, become old-fashioned too. His jokes which seemed to be hilarious when you were dating started to annoy you. His muscles atrophied (but honestly, he does not need them, after all he is not a porter). His habit to eat with his hands does not add him manliness any more. And his jealousy is not understood as a proof of love. It is no use saying that holding hands, giving flowers and passionate confessions seemed just advertising tricks.

Nobody forbids you to dream of ideal relations – but the more you expect from your partner and your relations, the stronger your disappointment will be.

If you have no money or no desire to change your old computer or your car you can upgrade or tune it. Big city offers such service. If you do not want to get into the divorce statistics… Do not even try to upgrade your husband. More often we are trying to change something in our partners and not in ourselves, not to give in, to find a compromise. Do you want your beloved to look and behave as he did at your first date, but for all that changed his repertoire of jokes and increased his profits twice and conformed to all the modern standards? That’s fine. But do not forget that you must be ideal like that too: give him maximum of attention, listen to him, love and praise his muscles and his habits of eating. And also all your life you have to be skinny, never get grouchy, be able to talk about politics and do the bakery on Saturdays. All that to prove his high expectations.

Factor №3

City wedding trade-in

Our society of consumption dictates its rules, so is city wedding. You easily return pants with a broken on the second day buckle to the store and get new ones. You are looking for a new job if your company does not follow the rules of the contract or if you do not get a promotion. You change you old car for a new one with just a little additional payment. You have not noticed that it became your approach to life. And as soon as your relations start bothering you for a number of reasons like family life, lots of work and dying passion, you start thinking not about how to save your wedding but where to find a new partner. Of course, it is much more easier. Especially in a big city.

You do not even have to go to night clubs and parties, you just go to a dating site and get crazy from so many admirers. You can go out every day, enjoy new romances and never have stable relations. The idea of meeting people through Internet is perverse on its own: why forgive your partner’s shortcomings and slips, if you can easily change him? The choice is great. By the way, American psychologists consider dating sites one of the factors that increase the divorce statistics and influence the average wedding duration.

Factor №4

City Wedding - Declaration of Independence

But the main factor that destroys family values is the factor of freedom and independence and equal rights. Each of us is all-sufficient and it is the reason to be proud of. But family life is a hard labor. And also willingness to mutual compromise. Willingness to sacrifice. Willingness to understand, to forgive, to listen to each other’s problems. And many other terms and sayings contradicting the freedom idea.

Why should I cook breakfast for you? I want to sleep.

Why should I drive your mom? I want to drink beer?

Why should I take your last name? My diploma and my driving license are with my last name.

Why should I sleep at home? I am free.

Entering into a wedding in city you should respect each other and give in sometimes even if it contradicts your principles. Do you agree that such behavior does not go with the image of a modern independent girl? It is extremely difficult to part with the status of a free personality who does not depend on anybody’s opinion and does not want to solve other person’s problems. Even putting on a finger their engagement ring most of us do not want to part with the former level of freedom. That’s why so many couples break up nowadays. And a five-year-old marriage after city wedding may be considered long and happy.

After divorce

Whenever you feel that the world around you became dull and meaningless after divorce and your life is over, stop blaming yourself after divorce. Do not dive into that virtual world. Take a break and listen to yourself. Imagine that you are a wardrobe with shelves and on the shelves there are lying all sorts of things – new, old, torn, expensive and cheap. Think the same way about your emotions. After divorce you need to forgive you both, and first of all forget him. Only then can you sigh with relief and thank for whatever happened to you.

After divorce it is good to speak to somebody about divorce who can listen and ask questions. It will help to clear everything out. To understand is a big step forward, it is a part of the problem solution.

After divorce do not blame either him or yourself for it. Try to think of the reasons of why divorce has happened to you. It will help not to make mistakes in the future.

After divorce it is good to recall your strong points. They will help you to succeed.

Live a day as if it is the last day in your life. Do not feel scared, it just helps to get rid of all the unnecessary things.

After divorce time is good to look with humor at your past. Feel happy to be free from snoring, dirty dishes in the sink, alcohol smell on weekends, talking about cars and football, free from his friends …

Forget your reproaches and concentrate on your dating plans for the future.

Look around. After divorce all seems awful but there are people who feel much worse than you. Everything is understood when compared.

According to statistics, after divorce pain goes away after 40 day period. Want of activity helps going back to life. It is the first step of restoring yourself. You may start from a beauty salon or going out to a dating, or meeting your old friend. Be careful, remember that like cures like, does not work all the time. It is your first step to a better future dating. Do not be in a hurry to replace your ex. Wait and everything will come to you in its time. Psychologists advice to fill your time with activity so that you have no time for crying over your broken relations. And it does not mean only trying on a new image. Some courses will also be helpful and they will also open new possibilities in front of you.

After divorce, sometimes you feel so mad, that you cannot control your emotions. And psychologies say that you should always give your feelings a way out not to choke yourself. If you have his photos, you can tear them into small pieces, or even burn them to feel better. You can throw away all his gifts and belongings or give them away to the homeless.

The most striking is that later you might discover in yourself the things that irritated you in him the most. It is called mirror’s effect. Try to get rid of them and you will never go twice into the same river.

We cannot influence the passing events but we may understand how they influence us. Think of whatever good and useful you learned from your brake up. You need to learn to forgive and let go – to free yourself from the ties. Forgiving him, you forget your own imperfection.

There is a theory that there are no accidental meetings in our life and all the people are sent to us purposefully. Try to see the better side of what happened to you and liberate yourself for the after divorce life.